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The number one reason I can’t be a boss – I have simple expectations – you’re getting paid, do your job, if you can’t or don’t want to you do the job find a new one.

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with the impending demise of itools/.mac/mobileme, i realised i need to move all the stuff i’d accumulated in my idisk over the last 15 years (yeah i was early adopter), so for the sake of keeping it on the internet i’ll be posting some it here. not because it matters, but because i can.

2006 White House Correspondents Dinner

When I Grow Up

My younger daughter is currently attending the Pearson College of the United World College. Every year they put on a show called One World, this year she performs a poem in the first part and then choreographs the closing number. How could I not post it?

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One World 2012 (Full Show Part 1)

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One World 2012 (Full Show Part 2)

on wednesday i celebrated my 10th wedding anniversary. this is the longest single relationship in my entire life and the time has flown by.

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today is my ninth wedding anniversary and there’s something that i wrote when i was just getting ready to move in with vic that has remained true almost seven years later

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the easiest place to start is the beginning – we lost our house. there, that’s said, four simple words, in retrospect not all that simple. we joined millions of other families that could no longer afford their homes and were foreclosed by the bank.

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i am surprised that i would ever have to use the immigration tag on a post again. i thought after two, three, four, i honestly lost track, years of dealing with the multiple name changes bureaucracy that is the INS i was done and i would have to mention them again. not so lucky.

the story is a follows, all those eons ago when victoria and i were filling out form after form after form, they all required you put in the names of your children. no problem, right? well it shouldn’t be, except lo and behold yesterday my younger daughter presented herself at the us embassy in trinidad to get her student visa so she could take advantage of a scholarship and the consular officer declared that there is an immigrant visa application associated with her name so he’s denying her application on those grounds.

i don’t even know where to begin with this. actually i do. one of the cornerstones of my job is to assume positive intent. i tried, for about 30 seconds i tried and then i realised that if this particular consular officer had taken the same 30 seconds that i gave him to do his job right i wouldn’t be typing this post.

in 30 seconds he might have seen that it was an 8 year old application for her parent that was processed and approved. in another 30 seconds that the child had a visitor visa issued within that 8 year period and had travelled to the us and returned, twice.

so here we are with two weeks before the child is due to report and we have little recourse. our congressional consular liaison sent a request for the embassy in trinidad to reconsider and approve the application and the school is also attempting to get them to reconsider. barring that we can throw more money at the embassy, reapply and hope for a different officer and a more sensible response.

Flex

July 12, 2010 — 2 Comments

the reason i haven’t actually used this space for its intended purpose is the same reason i’ve written this sentence about 12 times. it’s not that i’ve run out of opinions, i think i’ve lost the impetus to write. i sit at the keyboard and all the brilliant thoughts i had immediately evaporate, i thought the FFF would work but then i was working and after i lost my job i was too busy with the 12 million things i was working on to keep afloat and now that i have a full time job i’m down to 11 million things, because while it affords me relative luxuries like health insurance and a 401k plan, it pays for squat, so i’m still scrambling to keep afloat.

all of this to say that i’m going to try harder because i still have a lot to say.

riddle me this

July 22, 2009 — Leave a comment

These questions were sent to me by cajunscorpiogirl and originally came from White Apples by Jonathan Carroll.

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fun in the sun

June 25, 2009 — 1 Comment

good times, good people, good food, good music. everything you need for a good vacation