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two quickies

June 30, 2003 — Leave a comment

got this from n:


You Are an EXPERT in Bed

You know precisely what you’re doing when the sheets are pulled down and the panties go right along with them.
You’re also super confident, and rightly so.
Because any man who may be fortunate enough to find himself between your legs is a happy man, indeed.
You’re the type of woman men brag about in locker rooms: knowledgeable, adorable, and lickable.
You’ve gotten to the point that you don’t even have to try so hard.
It all just comes naturally: the mouth, the hips, everything underneath.
One lovely little package.

Are *You* Good In Bed?
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Your Sexual Energy is Green!

Your sexual energy is rich, serene, and abundant like the natural world.
You are always feeling your sexual aura flow through you, like a stream.
Rarely do you go anywhere without it.
You seduce people with your luxurious glow.
You do not have to be obvious to express your sexuality.
Others just feel your serene sexual power that resides within.
First dates are a mental dance for you – as you subtly seduce potential lovers.
In bed, you can easily sense your lovers needs and to flow them as needed.
This spiritual click is your primary sexual strength.
However, sometimes you allow your carnal appetite to go too far, and you forget to be cautious.
While it’s awesome and totally liberating to release your inner wild woman… watch out!
Sometimes your pheromones may mislead you.
Check out Natalie Portman and Julia Stiles for some green sexual energy guidance.
When it comes to the hot matches, people who have shades of red, yellow, and pink are strong possibilities.
What Color is Your Sexual Energy?
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when it rains…

June 30, 2003 — Leave a comment

…it pours.

today was kind of stressful, aside from the moron client. the power adaptor on my laptop, finally gave out, had to find a replacement at least until the new one arrives. then i couldn’t get my regular connection to dialup. i’m using a borrowed connection to get some info for a quotation that was due on friday, but all i want to do right now is go to bed. vic has a headache and i’m not sure who’s feeding back from whom.

i’m want to call it a night, but i have to wait on a call back from the server people, my client is  on my ass, rightfully so as to why her server or at least the mail portion isn’t up yet.

i’ll regal you with some links in the mean time:

Are you hypocritical about God? (a very interesting quiz – vic sent me this a while ago)
my results:
You have been awarded the TPM medal of distinction! This is our second highest award for outstanding service on the intellectual battleground.
The fact that you progressed through this activity being hit only once and biting very few bullets suggests that your beliefs about God are well thought out and almost entirely internally consistent.
The direct hit you suffered occurred because one set of your answers implied a logical contradiction. The bitten bullets occurred because you responded in ways that required that you held views that most people would have found strange, incredible or unpalatable. At the bottom of this page, we have reproduced the analyses of your direct hit and bitten bullets.
Because you only suffered one direct hit and bit very few bullets, you qualify for our second highest award. A good achievement!

this week i promise to bring you at least one pride link a day. here is the stranger’s 2003 queer issue

going to get some sleep, have a good night.

i have the misfortune of doing work for the miscreants that purport to run this country. and if the way this job is organised (actually disorganised and mismanaged), then i’m not surprised by the state the country is in.

the person that’s supposed to liase with the agency, is an arrogant, self-important, pus ridden, infected, affected twat. and is seriously angling herself for me to tell that to her.

i should be more angry, but the good feelings that have be engendered since friday and vic’s impending arrival are holding sway. i needed to exorcise that bit of vitriol before i continued work. i’m making changes, to what remains of the template that was developed.

i’ll be back later.

i’m reorganising the post of the first 6 days, which i’d posted on a blog, here in chronological order.
i feel somewhat like winston, although i’m not revising history, the js ability to make the post appear to have been on a specific date is really orwellian.

just wanted to say that, and plug my early blog enteries.


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…and counting

June 30, 2003 — Leave a comment

there are 18 days til vic gets here.

if the dreams get any more intense i’m going to spontaneously combust. today is the halfway point, since we’ve gotten all the tickets and this trip has become our talisman, our holy grail. there is a small voice in the back of my head trying to tell me calm down, there are a million things that could go wrong between, now and then. i know it’s the voice of reason, but i don’t want to conceive spending another month apart from vic.

even as we gear up for this trip, i’m looking at long weekends later in the year, where we can get away to see each other. my mind is a jumble right now, my heart is racing, i have this whimsical smile on my face, so many thoughts are racing through my head right now. i’ll come back this, i can’t concentrate, put what i’m thinking into words, maybe it’s not so much my brain, as my heart. i’m happy and i’m in love.

after all that joy, i have a couple pieces of distressing news.

first, one of the grand dames of film, kathrine hepburn, died,

secondly, a us constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage?

and finally, why is it people (it’s not just americans) feel that someone else is responsible for their children (it’s a two part article) and their behaviour (thanks laura), this kind of thing always distresses me to read. it’s always some external factor, no one wants to admit, they’ve not done the best they can for their children. this is a whole other post, i’m going to stop here.


tonight in trinidad:

Movie Night featuring Phillip Pike’s “Songs of Freedom” a film documenting the GLBT Community of Jamaica, with an original score composed by Toronto musician Quammie. Hosted by DENI.

Time: 07.00 pm till | ADMISSION: FREE | All events are held at Bohemia

i’m off to work, i’ll be back later.

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the simple things

June 29, 2003 — Leave a comment

i realised i didn’t put in the number of days til vic gets here: 19

after a long, pleasant, dream filled nap, i had to go pick up the girls.
music is an interesting thing, there are songs that you’ll always associate with a moment, a person. tonight i was fortunate enough to hear the two songs that remind me about the two non-blood relations that mean the most to me. my best friend and my wife. it also made me think about love. how it’s possible to love two people in completely different ways and want the same thing for them both – their complete happiness.
there is no point to this, no greater meaning, just glad that i have these people in my life. i feel very centred, i’m in a good place.
another calming aspect of the evening is watching children sleep, my younger daughter and her sister (long complicated story, let’s just say i have interesting family relationships) have this habit of falling asleep as soon as they get in a car. it’s beautiful to behold.

i’m going to chat with my wife. have a good night.

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the rain stopped while i was eating, so i’m sitting here in front of the fan, catching up on the links i missed over the last couple of days.

foodie porn (for vic)

questions about the safety of soy. brainshrinking tofu? and a counter argument (what me worry? i’m  a carnivore baby.)

the key art award winners (keyart are the awards for movie hype designs – trialers, standees, posters, the stuff that makes you think about spending your cash.)

the first worker-owned co-operative strip club

and your moment of zen

nap time, i’m crashing.

a little over 36 hours ago i was posting about random acts of kindness and feeling all warm inside about the place. it was too good to last. i went to work, that wasn’t too bad, borrowed my ex-brother-in-law’s car, picked up the pig et homme and off we went to the slamming back in times party. evelyn champagne king wasn’t all that, but the company was good, the music was nice.
my damn near perfect weekend was fucked when i got back to the car and realised that it had been broken into, radio gone and the pig’s bag is gone. there is a sense of violation when you’re robbed, only compounded by the inordinate amount of shit you have to go through. i moseyed to the police station to make a report, even though as the nice policeman (now there are words that i’d never thought i’d utter) told me that it would just be another unsolved larceny statistic (as if i didn’t know that). now i have replace the tape player in the car, another expense, i could do without.
in other news while i wait on my printed copies of hp5 to arrive in hand, i found a copy floating about online and i can safely say i understand why ebooks never made it. i spend about an hour last night trying to read it on my hand held, what an exercise in frustration. as much as i’m advocate of technology, ebooks will never replace paper for me.

i’m going to get some food, read the news (which means i’ll be back later with links) and take a nap. the rain is pouring down here and there is very little that beats a nap on a rainy sunday afteroon, well in 3 sundays, i’m sure i’ll prove myself wrong.

for vic

June 28, 2003 — Leave a comment

came across this today and thought you’d like it

leaving the office now, the last print is coming out of the printer. going home, take a nap, then off to the old school party tonight. evelyn ‘champagne’ king. woo hoo.

too long, too long

June 28, 2003 — Leave a comment

only 20 more days before gets here. 🙂 my god, the dreams, the dreams. i’m still tingling and it’s midafternoon. i’ve been in the office far too many hours already. the print making continues, either i have exceptionally high standards or most people in the business here have no idea how printing operates.

nevermind, i was going to start ranting but i’m trying to extending the good feeling from last night’s random act of kindness and that truly delicious, sensuous dream. (wouldn’t you like to know)

i’m taking a break while the last of the files save and i managed to squeeze in some tests.

got this one from jadedgrrl and it was too funny not to take, here is my result:

Not Bad

You scored a 32.

You are 43.8% queer.

Well, you are kinda queer, but you still need to work in it a bit.  You only scored in the bottom 50th percentile of queerness.  More than half the world is queerer than you, meaning half the world is having more fun than you.

Others in your queerness category: Pierce Brosnan, Don King, The guy on the Quaker Oats box, Don Johnson,  Dick Van Dyke, your local weatherman, any Asian or guy from Europe.

which makes this result, no surprise:


You are: Flaming Ernie- Wow, I always wondered why

he liked to hang out with Bert…. I always

thought Bert was the gay one…. Ha-  you

proved that one wrong! Oh well. Gay ppl are

happy ppl…

What F*cked up Sesame Charracter are you?

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(thanks laura)

and this has been knocking about  js for a couple days now:


You have an entrancing kiss~ the kind that leaves

your partner bedazzled and maybe even feeling

he/she is dreaming.  Quite effective; the kiss

that never lessens and always blows your

partner away like the first time.

What kind of kiss are you?

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and the friday 5 only a day late (but not very applicable):

1. How are you planning to spend the summer [winter] (august vacation in these parts)?

working mostly (but vic is coming here in 20 days. woo hoo)

2. What was your first summer job?

bagging groceries, loved it.

3. If you could go anywhere this summer [winter], where would you go?

anywhere vic and i could hole up for hours and hours alone.

4. What was your worst vacation ever?

none really, i usually find a way to have a good time wherever i am.

5. What was your best vacation ever?

4 days in barbados with vic

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