CunningLinguist

How content are you with your life today? Are you HAPPY? What would you change today to make life better for your future?

i`m as content as i can be when i haven`t seen my wife and the love my life for close to six month.

i`m content, i have a job that affords me the opportunity to see my wife in a few weeks. happy is relative, i`m happier than i was in trinidad, i`m happier now than i was last night, but i`m also slightly inebriated.

vic, i and our children, all in one place would make my life better. i`ve got a few talents, i could work pretty much anywhere. i just need for our family to be in one place.

Are you against “Public Displays of Affection”? Does it bother you to see kissing in public or someone damn near grinding?

If you said NO, would it bother you if the couple were of the same sex?

i`m not against public displays of affection, i`d be a hypocrite if i said i was. when i see vic, i can barely keep my hands off her, but there is a point where the need to find somewhere private becomes an essential. kissing, hand holding, light caresses; all good, humping each other on a dance floor is just plain tacky.

but if being an exhibitionist turns you own, who am i to judge.

as for it being worse if it`s a same sex couple, try changing same sex to inter racial, elderly, jewish, black.

you get my point. excessive behaviour applies to whoever is doing it, it doesn`t make more or less acceptable based on the qualifier and to judge based on that is just wrong.

The capacity to handle criticism and grow from it is a very important aspect of becoming successful.

How have you used critism to help you? Do you get easily offended if you feel you`ve done a good job, but yet someone still criticizes you? How do you go about GIVING criticism if you can`t accept it?

i can take criticism, i`m in an industry where you learn to take it early on, or you get out of the business. a lot of it isn`t very constructive, it`s just people throwing their weight around and there`s a lot of ego particularly in creative environments.

but as i`ve said before i`m not one for popularity contests and alpha male behaviour, so i can take constructive criticism and because of my attitude, i can make suggestions without coming off like an asshole.

at least i can do it now. i used to be a really fuckwit in my youth. i`ve learned to be a lot more sensitive in my critiques as i`m gotten older.

What have you done today that will add an extra day to your life??

i prayed and i offered comfort to someone in need. i don`t think there`s much more than that.

I know we all have things we`d like to accomplish. What are 2 of your short term goals? What are 2 of your long term goals? How likely do you think it is that your goals will be accomplished?

my two short term goals, uniting my family, this hither, thither and yon, is not working and once we`re together i need to know i can provide for them, we need to able to live wherever we choose, comfortably.

long term goals are pretty simple as well a restaurant/bookshop/imprint with vic and for us to live long enough to see our children succeed.

In the day and age of reality T.V. it seems people will do anything for money. But….I wonder about my J.S. buddies. What WOULDN’T you do for a million dollars? ( I understand if this is a long list)

actually my list is so long, it`s easier for me to list what i will do for a million dollars.

work for it. as cheesy as it sounds i think i would be satisfied to know i earned a million dollars, particularly if i was doing what i was good at.

i wouldn`t mind inheriting it.

my moral high ground is pretty much an anthill but it`s got a strong foundation, money is not the be all and end of my existence. it`s an unnecessary evil. i`ve never aspired to be rich, i just want to be comfortable and provide for my family.

at the end of the day, how long will $1,000,000 last and will it really make you happy?

Have you ever been out and seen the mate of your friend out with another love interest? (I`m speaking of an OBVIOUS encounter…deep kissing or feeling one another up) Do you mind your own business or do you let your friend know you saw their mate cheating? Does it make you less of a friend to keep that info to yourself?

i was in a similar situation this year and at the end of the day, i`ve realised that i probably don`t know all the circumstances and since i don`t like gossip, i`m not going to say anything unless i`m asked directly. then i wont lie. i don`t think it`s my place to say.

i`m not sure if it makes me less of a friend. i`m really torn about the whole thing. do you protect your friend or do you let them hurt and what is your reasoning for either?

Have you ever heard someone say they are LOOKING for love? How does one look for LOVE? Do you think it`s possible? Wouldn`t it be best to let LOVE find YOU?

the harder you look the more elusive it becomes. i think part of it is pheromonal, i mentioned it in this post

no matter how hard you try your efforts are in vain. you find yourself accepting less than what you`re worth when you`re looking for love.

in my experience, love finds you when you least expect it. i met vic online, we started chatting, daily and the rest as they say is history.

i was looking for a friend, i found a friend, a companion, a love, a wife.

If your mate asked you to make a home sex video with them, would you consider it or have you done it? What are views on this? Would you do it again?

with vic there is almost nothing that i`d be unwilling to try. but i don`t think either of us are of the video making sort. our stimuli are actually more intangible and can`t be captured on video.

and i`ve never felt the urge to make a video with anyone else.

i don`t think i`m any position to judge anyone for anything they do in the privacy of their home.

After a passionate lovemaking session, the last thing a woman wants is for you to turn your back on her and begin a private snore fest. (I know the women feel me) What better way to cleanse yourselves after a hot, sweaty episode than showering together? There is no better time to communicate with one another than after a mutually gratifying sexual experience.

What kinds of things do you do with your partner after LOVEMAKING?

what else is there to do, but start again. 🙂

vic and i find the smell of our lovemaking quite sensual, so there is no rushing into the shower. we`re usually both exhausted so we just wrap ourselves up and go to sleep.