Archives For December 2003

i like this question

December 15, 2003 — Leave a comment

After a passionate lovemaking session, the last thing a woman wants is for you to turn your back on her and begin a private snore fest. (I know the women feel me) What better way to cleanse yourselves after a hot, sweaty episode than showering together? There is no better time to communicate with one another than after a mutually gratifying sexual experience.

What kinds of things do you do with your partner after LOVEMAKING?

what else is there to do, but start again. 🙂

vic and i find the smell of our lovemaking quite sensual, so there is no rushing into the shower. we`re usually both exhausted so we just wrap ourselves up and go to sleep.

words i love

December 15, 2003 — Leave a comment

the quarterly update of the OED is out

among the new entries:

blamestorming

bluetooth

cilantro

and the ever useful, fuckwit.

wonder when we`ll see that as word of the day?

where did we go wrong?

December 15, 2003 — Leave a comment

or should that be when?

i was looking at some photographs over the weekend online. i`ve been thinking about doing some portraits lately. i`m tired of seeing, what in my opinion is, an unrealistic portrait of the female form.

i know a lot of women and none of them fits the barbie mould. Tall, short, thick, thin, products of their genetic heritage, beautiful outright or radiating that special `je ne c`est quoi`. they are all stunning in their own right.

so why it is, specifically in the caribbean we seemed to be represented by this US ideal. long flowing hair, huge bust and tiny stick legs. it`s no who we are. it irks me every time i see one of the ms [insert misogynistic cattle call here] show contestants. who are they representing?

i have two daughters, i think they could have fit in a size 0 about two years ago. i know enough adults that have grown up before the current fashion trends with their own body issues, what`s going to happen to my young women.

there is already a fashion designer in trinidad, who has stated openly that he doesn`t make clothes for fat people. what he really means is unless you`re shaped like a plank you can`t wear his clothes. it`s easy enough to say fuck him and not buy his clothes but it`s the thinking that allows him to say something like that.

i clearly understand that there are different body types but when did one specific type become the ideal?

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read the fine print

December 14, 2003 — Leave a comment

i had to get out of the apartment today. it was driving me insane. i got up early this morning, did a few laps in the pool, came back upstairs made breakfast, sorted out the mailbox on my computer and it was only 10am.

i couldn`t face another day of just sitting around there doing nothing. i get very agitated when i have nothing to do and it`s not like i have my friends to call and hang out with. having all this time on my hands is frustrating.

i think it can summed up in one word, lonely. it seems so complete. i`ve gone through this before, so i know i can survive it, but why does it seems so insurmountable now.

i need to find something to do with my time. so that the hours stop crashing against me like this. i suppose when i get an internet connection at home it will keep me better occupied, but i need to get out more.

i went out to the opening of a new club on friday night, not necessarily because it`s something i enjoyed, but it was better than sitting around at home and doing nothing. i`m not a particularly big fan of crowds and i think my days for sweatily rubbing up against people are pretty much over.

ok enough bitching. going to look for some software so i can use my palm as a remote for my tv.

read the fine print

December 14, 2003 — Leave a comment

i had to get out of the apartment today. it was driving me insane. i got up early this morning, did a few laps in the pool, came back upstairs made breakfast, sorted out the mailbox on my computer and it was only 10am.

i couldn`t face another day of just sitting around there doing nothing. i get very agitated when i have nothing to do and it`s not like i have my friends to call and hang out with. having all this time on my hands is frustrating.

i think it can summed up in one word, lonely. it seems so complete. i`ve gone through this before, so i know i can survive it, but why does it seems so insurmountable now.

i need to find something to do with my time. so that the hours stop crashing against me like this. i suppose when i get an internet connection at home it will keep me better occupied, but i need to get out more.

i went out to the opening of a new club on friday night, not necessarily because it`s something i enjoyed, but it was better than sitting around at home and doing nothing. i`m not a particularly big fan of crowds and i think my days for sweatily rubbing up against people are pretty much over.

ok enough bitching. going to look for some software so i can use my palm as a remote for my tv.

This is a two part question.

What are your plans for New Years Eve?

Second question….

If your plans are not what you`d really like to do….what would be your ideal night of fun for New Years Eve

well i`m going to be completely alone for this new years. another new year`s without vic. sigh. so my major plan is not get too depressed. i`m holding on to that, best i can.

what i`d really like to do is to have vic in my arms. start a new year, together. sex would be fantastic, but at this point, i`d just like to hold her in my arms and give thanks for another year.

what the fuck?!?!?

cable and wireless jamaica showed up at my apartment yesterday and connected my phone line, that`s all well and good, but they didn`t provide me with a phone. i have to buy a telephone, separately.

what the fuck!

i have mice in my apartment. i saw the little fuckers, scurrying around last night. what the fuck! i put my garbage out everyday, i don`t leave stuff lying around, i wipe down my counters. how the fuck do i have mice? i feel so violated. i need to buy disinfectant and purify my kitchen. [shudder]

this is a good but somewhat old, `what the fuck`. 606 takes?

i`m not in a bad mood, i`m actually pretty relaxed, the first leg of my logo designs got approved, from about 12 we`re down to six, i`m looking forward to working on that today, plus i have two other media projects to work on. i feel good.

not so boob tube

December 11, 2003 — Leave a comment

i`ve been watching a lot of tv.

there is no where to really unpack the books yet and i`ve sworn off the freelance gigs for a while and i have no internet connection at home, all of this means i have lots of free time on my hands.

i have a 100+ channels but find myself watching basically four channels. i`ve turned into a law and order junkie, i really think they should start a L&O network. all L&O, all the time.

i`m also hooked on the first hour of adult swim, at last i have real cable, with cartoon network and not cartoon network LA. i`m catching up on my samurai jack. i`ve always recognised the genius of the show, but now i`m getting nuance, there are all these literary references and night before last there was a scene that borrowed liberally from the dennis sketch in monty python and the holy grail and i was laughing my ass off.

but it`s not just samurai jack; futurama, family guy, jackie chan, even kim possible have all these nuances and subtext and generally i find animated series tend to be better written than most of the sitcom stuff. most sitcoms are an anathema to me.

when it comes to movies, i`m not a snob, but for my television, it has to be well written and the dialogue has to catch me. which is why i`m such a fan of gilmore girls. yes, i admit it, i like gilmore girls and to use an excuse from my youth, i watch it for the dialogue.

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December 25th was previously the Birthday of the Unconquered Sun in Rome and honored the Etruscan god Sol. In 10 B.C. the god was changed to Apollo and in the 2nd century to the Persian deity Mithras. Mithras lived six centuries before Christ and was the son of the Supreme god of light. His birth was attended by sheperds and he was sent to slay the huge bull of creation. Mithras had a last supper of bread and wine with his followers before he died and it was believed that he would return at the end of time to judge the dead.

from christine o`keeffe`s christmas  history

and Saul of Tarsus and Christ`s Blood

baptism by fire [redux]

December 10, 2003 — Leave a comment

before i get started on this post i would like to say, i love my career, if i had to do over again, i`d make a lot of the same choices.

that said, advertising is not a 9 to 5 industry, well maybe for some of the staff, but once you`re a member of the creative department, your hours tend to be longer particularly during the peak period. last night was my first late night at my new job, i doubt it will be my last.

i`ve been in this industry a while and in the beginning late hours were part and parcel of my life. in the closing moments of my first marriage i was working 20 hours days. once you start down that path, it becomes the norm rather than the odd occasion.

advertising is  a soul sucking business, particularly if you let it. i think we`re at the bottom of the food chain, even lower than lawyers. with lawyers you know what to expect, with advertising, it`s all smoke and mirrors. there is no matrix, there is only advertising.

but nothing beats the buzz of working in an agency. yes, i bitched about my last job, but that was because i was really unhappy there. this job is reminiscent of my first agency environment. there is a sense of camaraderie, the art-room is loud and boisterous at times, it has character.

i`ll be the first to admit advertising has made me more cynical, but i am a not my job and i learned after the first time i left this industry, it`s not my life either. that`s why i enjoy george carlin`s advertising lullabye and mr. snaffleburger. it reminds me that not everyone swallows the bullshit we dispense.

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