We are told the truth shall set us free but why is it that the truth is the only thing you have to sugar coat before someone will accept it? Why is it that most people cant handle the truth? Shouldn`t the acceptance of truth be part of what strengthens our character?
i have what is construed as a bad habit of speaking my mind but it only seemed to apply to people i didn`t care about. i could lash out in the most horrendous way, using the truth as my cover but when it came to the people nearest and dearest to me, i would use avoidance or an outright lie.
i realised after a while it hurts more. so i try to go with the truth even though i know it will hurt knowing that if you cover it up, when finally does come out it will be some much more painful